美國(guó)大學(xué)生為找好工作入學(xué)前開(kāi)始做的20件事（下）
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美國(guó)大學(xué)生為找好工作入學(xué)前開(kāi)始做的20件事之下篇來(lái)襲~
11. Make your job search a priority. Jobs do not fall in your lap, you have to chase them. Especially a good one. It's a job to look for a job. Use spreadsheets to track your progress. And plan early. Goldman Sachs, for example, starts its information sessions in September.
第十一，好工作要自己去找，不要等著天上掉餡餅，尤其是好的工作。找工作本身就是一件工作，你應(yīng)該用表格記錄找工作的過(guò)程。并且要提前規(guī)劃。比如說(shuō)高盛從9月份就開(kāi)始招工信息通報(bào)會(huì)。
感想：幸福來(lái)源于自己去追求。等待將會(huì)一無(wú)所獲。
12. Take a course in happiness. Happiness study is revolutionizing how we think of psychology, economics, and sociology. How to be happy is a science that 150 schools teach. Preview: Learn to be more optimistic. This class will show you how.
第十二，選修關(guān)于"幸福"的心理課程。幸福的研究來(lái)源于我們對(duì)心理學(xué)、經(jīng)濟(jì)學(xué)和社會(huì)學(xué)的思考。如何快樂(lè)是一門學(xué)科，超過(guò)150個(gè)學(xué)校都在進(jìn)行這一方面的教學(xué)。學(xué)會(huì)積極樂(lè)觀的態(tài)度。
感想：幸福是一門需要用心去體驗(yàn)的學(xué)問(wèn)。用愉快的心態(tài)去迎接社會(huì)的考驗(yàn)。
13. Take an acting course. The best actors are actually being their most authentic selves, says Lindy Amos of communications coaching firm TAI Resources. Amos teaches executives to communicate authentically so that people will listen and feel connected. You need to learn to do this, too, and you may as well start in college.
第十三，上表演課。美國(guó)社會(huì)整個(gè)就是個(gè)舞臺(tái)，從教授、政治家、企業(yè)總裁，到律師、將軍、記者，不會(huì)表演就很難出頭。與人溝通，使人聆聽(tīng)并感受的學(xué)習(xí)不妨從大學(xué)就開(kāi)始學(xué)習(xí)。
感想：這就是我們常聽(tīng)到的情商的重要性。社會(huì)是由人組成的，交流溝通無(wú)時(shí)不在。而方法和基本常識(shí)我們需要盡早的去學(xué)習(xí)。
14. Learn to give a compliment. The best compliments are specific, so ``good job" is not good, writes Lisa Laskow Lahey, psychologist at Harvard and co-author of ``How the Way We Talk Can Change the Way We Work." Practice on your professors. If you give a good compliment the recipient will think you're smarter: Big payoff in college, but bigger payoff in the work world.
第十四，學(xué)會(huì)贊美別人。哈佛大學(xué)心理學(xué)家Lisa Laskow Lahey在《How the Way We Talk Can Change the Way We Work》一書(shū)中說(shuō)道：最好的恭維應(yīng)該是具體的，像“工作好”并不是一種好的贊美。如果你給別人一個(gè)好的贊美，你會(huì)被認(rèn)為是一個(gè)聰明的人(這樣的效果，在學(xué)校里會(huì)有很大的好處，在工作的世界里你的收益就會(huì)更大)。
感想：在生活中，既要當(dāng)好演員，也要當(dāng)好觀眾。很多時(shí)候我們總是感覺(jué)和別人有距離，其實(shí)就是缺那簡(jiǎn)單的幾句問(wèn)候和一個(gè)擁抱。學(xué)會(huì)感恩，你將生活的更快樂(lè)。
15. Use the career center. These people are experts at positioning you in the workforce and their only job is to get you a job. How can you not love this place? If you find yourself thinking the people at your college's career center are idiots, it's probably a sign that you really, really don't know what you're doing.
第十五，使用就業(yè)指導(dǎo)中心。美國(guó)大學(xué)一個(gè)重要部門就是求職咨詢機(jī)構(gòu)。專業(yè)人員幫你分析自己的長(zhǎng)短，以及就業(yè)市場(chǎng)，幫助你準(zhǔn)備面試，修改申請(qǐng)信。
感想：不需要一切都靠自己打天下。學(xué)校是你的后盾，有很多資源可以利用的。
16. Develop a strong sense of self by dissing colleges that reject you. Happy people have ``a more durable sense of and aren't as buffeted by outside events," writes Sonja Lyubomirsky of the University of California-Riverside. When bad things happen, don't take it personally. This is how the most successful business people bounce back quickly from setback.
第十六，被拒后應(yīng)該坦然以對(duì)。快樂(lè)的人自己定義自己，不會(huì)用外在指標(biāo)定義自己。當(dāng)不好的事情發(fā)生的時(shí)候，不要太在意。學(xué)會(huì)如何從失敗中走出來(lái)。
感想：成功的人就是那些學(xué)會(huì)了如何快速?gòu)氖≈姓酒饋?lái)，再去奮斗的人。
17. Apply to Harvard as a transfer student. Sure people have wild success after going to an Ivy League school but this success is no more grand than that of the people who applied and got rejected. All people who apply to Ivy League schools seem to have similar high self-confidenceand ambition, even if they don't get in, according to a study by Kreuger.
第十七，以轉(zhuǎn)校生的身份申請(qǐng)哈佛。人們從常春藤名校畢業(yè)無(wú)疑會(huì)取得巨大的成功，但是那些申請(qǐng)后被拒的學(xué)生也不差。所有申請(qǐng)常春藤名校的人，即使不能入校就讀，也都有同樣的自信和野心。
感想：成功的人有一顆永不言敗的心。
18. Get rid of your perfectionist streak. It is rewarded in college, but it leads to insane job stress and an inability to feel satisfied with your work. And for all of you still stuck on number 6, about ditching the law school applications: The Utah Bar Journal says that lawyers are disproportionately perfectionists.
第十八，不要過(guò)分追求完美，不要給自己不必要的壓力。生活不止是工作，學(xué)習(xí)，它還有很多很多。
感想：生活是豐富多彩的，要去熱愛(ài)人生。
19. Work your way though college. Getting involved in student organizations counts, and so does feeding children in Sierra Leone or sweeping floors in the chemistry building. Each experience you have can grow into something bigger. Albert was an orientation leader last year, and she turned that experience into a full-time summer job that morphed into a position managing 130 orientation leaders. A great bullet on the resume for a junior in college.
第十九，要靠打工讀完大學(xué)，積累工作經(jīng)驗(yàn)。通過(guò)打工你會(huì)認(rèn)識(shí)很多人，每一份工作，都會(huì)給你經(jīng)驗(yàn)的積累。領(lǐng)導(dǎo)才能的鍛煉就是從這些打工的過(guò)程中獲得的。
感想：大部分中國(guó)學(xué)生做不到，甚至認(rèn)為打工沒(méi)有必要，其實(shí)打過(guò)工的人才會(huì)真正珍惜生活。打工僅僅是學(xué)習(xí)的一種手段，通過(guò)打工，你會(huì)學(xué)到更多課本以外的使用知識(shí)。
20. Make to do lists. You can't achieve dreams if you don't have a plan to get there.
第二十，把你的目標(biāo)列成表，因?yàn)槟銢](méi)有計(jì)劃就不可能成功。不要整天沒(méi)事干老胡思亂想，只有真正的行動(dòng)才能拯救你!
感想：從我做起，從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始做起。
這些建議，凝聚著許多在哈佛這類學(xué)校長(zhǎng)期執(zhí)教的教授的經(jīng)驗(yàn)。這20件事，沒(méi)有談?wù)n堂，沒(méi)有談讀書(shū)，上來(lái)就讓你走出圖書(shū)館。其實(shí)美國(guó)大學(xué)的學(xué)習(xí)閱讀量很大。但是，上課讀書(shū)，僅僅是大學(xué)生活的一部分。大學(xué)生從走進(jìn)校門那一天起，就要想到如何才能走出來(lái)，跨入社會(huì)。并且不斷尋找怎么才能更好的走出來(lái)。